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Why Moving Away Is a Good Idea

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If you’re on the fence about the idea to move away and start over, don’t worry. We’re here to tell you all about the factors you need to consider when making this decision.

So, if you’re unsure, read on and enjoy!

When you lead a certain kind of lifestyle for a while, especially once you reach adulthood, sooner or later, you’ll probably find yourself getting somewhat sick of it. After all, while we all learn to accept our daily routines for what they are, if we don’t experience anything refreshing or interesting, we probably find ourselves stuck in a rut. And if that happens, the quickest and most efficient thing you can do is to simply move away and start over.

Sure, making that transition isn’t easy, and many people decide against it in the end because it seems too daunting. If you’re brave enough, though - there are many reasons why this is a good idea.

A girl in a sweater setting out on a journey down a country road, representing the idea to move away and start over.

Why is it a good idea to move away and start over?


Pushing Yourself Towards Personal Development

Let’s be realistic, in most situations in life we’d like things to be as easy as possible.

If given the choice between doing something difficult and possibly failing, or something that’s easy and probable, most of us would choose the latter. But while that’s an easier way of living your life on a daily basis, at one point, you’ll realize that it leaves little room for personal improvement. And the worst part is that most people only realize this when it’s far too late to do anything about it.

So, if you want to work on your personal skills, it’s a good idea to move away and start over. Trust us, this will be one of the greatest personal challenges in your life, but you’ll come out on the other side much stronger. If there was ever a personal process that tests your stress management skills, relocation is exactly that. You’ll have quite a lot of things to do simultaneously, and many different chores to juggle, which is why moving anxiety is not something people make up. This is why this is the perfect time to learn some relaxation techniques, while also learning what your personal stress triggers are and how to avoid them.

A man on a summit overlooking the land below.

While we all want things to be easier, a challenge is a good thing from time to time!



Working on Your Workplace Skills

Once we’re done with our schooling, most of us want to enter the workforce as quickly as possible. After all, there’s no better feeling than successfully advancing your career. However, after a while of working in the same area, you may find that you’ve hit a dead end. Maybe the local market isn’t favorable to you, perhaps your job is moving overseas, or, these days, you may be on the verge of losing your job to automation. Regardless of which, if you need to find a new perspective for your career, it’s a good idea to move away and start over.

An empty conference room in an office building.

If you find yourself lacking career opportunities,
moving away could be what you need!

And if you’ve spent a lot of time at the same company, you may actually find that some of your personal skills that are important in the workplace are getting a little rusty. Which is precisely why going after a new job is what you need to shake things up! In a brand-new environment, you’ll have to rethink some things that you’ve come to regard as natural. For example, you’ll see if your presentation skills are really as good as you think, or you’ve just been lulled by a familiar audience of coworkers. Also, if you want to advance your career, you’ll need to work on your strategic thinking and other skills that make for a great leader.

Refining your learning skills

Once you’ve spent a lot of time in one town, you’re bound to know the place like the back of your hand. And that can be nice in many ways - you’ve got your friends that you’ve known for ages, for example. But a very familiar environment can dull your learning skills in general, which is really the last thing you want. Whether it’s just for studying or advancing yourself professionally, you want to cultivate a mindset that allows life-long learning.

Moving means everything will be new and exciting

So, to put it simply - while knowing everything about a place is convenient, it also means you can’t really experience new things. If you’ve lived in the same place for ages, finding something new and cool can be really difficult. And that’s a rush of energy and excitement that we all need from time to time, especially if we want to remain open to new information and knowledge. Sure, relocating to a new place is a big decision. But just remember that even if you decide to move in a matter of hours, and you’re not sure if you’ve made the right call, at least in this way, you’ll definitely be doing something positive. In your new town, you’ll get to experience that fun exploratory part all over again, which is always refreshing and brings a new quality to your life.

Expanding Your Social Circles

A group of female friends laughing about something.

Making new friends is always a great feeling!

Of course, if you decide to move away and start over, it’s not all about becoming employable again or finding a new restaurant.

It’s also about the people you’re spending time with. And sure, no matter where you decide to live, you’ll always have loved ones and close friends at home. But after living in your hometown for years, finding new friends or romantic prospects can become increasingly hard. This is another reason why you may want to consider relocating to a new city or town.

Indeed, relocating to a new place is the perfect opportunity to improve your interpersonal skills. Just consider all the new social situations you’ll be a part of!

New encounters in a place where you don’t really know anyone is a guaranteed recipe for becoming better at social skills like persuasion, or possibly even conflict resolution. And on a psychological level, making new friends is good at any age. This also hones your mediation and negotiation skills, which are extremely useful in a work environment.


About the Author


John Slater is a freelance writer, mostly dealing with topics such as self-improvement and personal development. When he’s not typing away on his computer, he relaxes on long hikes and an occasional boat trip.

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