Personal Skills for Body and Mind
Perhaps the most fundamental of all skills are those concerned with self-preservation - that is, staying healthy in both body and mind. This section of SkillsYouNeed covers some ideas that can help you maintain a healthy lifestyle. Our pages will also help to make sure that you are able to feel good about yourself.
Without good personal (or intra-personal) skills, you are less likely to be able to develop good interpersonal, presentation or leadership skills.
We aim to provide practical advice about personal skills which can enhance your mental and physical health and wellbeing.
All of the information found on SkillsYouNeed is, to the best of our knowledge, correct. We are, however, not a replacement for professional healthcare providers. If you are worried about your physical or mental health then seek professional medical advice.
Learning about Personal Development
Personal development skills are the skills you need to enable you to set personal goals and to achieve personal empowerment.
You can build a strong and effective skill-set through personal development, and these will help you to make relevant and positive choices and decisions in the future.
Personal Development Skills
Become more self-aware, and learn to recognise your strengths and weaknesses and those of other people, for example, by developing habits of Reflective Practice.
Learn how to use language positively to encourage self-empowerment in our pages on Positive Thinking and Neuro-Linguistic Programming, and also to help empower others. Remove the barriers to learning and developing yourself by discovering the Importance of Mindset and start to develop new skills today. And if you find personal change hard, take a look at our pages on Personal Change Management Skills and Self-Motivation for some ideas to get you started.
Our section on Character-Building Skills focuses heavily on those perhaps old-fashioned terms ‘character’ and ‘virtue’, and their increasing importance in today’s world.
Ethics play an important role in life, although sometimes in the modern world it’s hard to remember. Find more about this in our pages on Living Ethically, Ethical Consumption and Ethics and Goodness in Professional Life.
You can also find out more about individual character traits, or ‘virtues’ on our individual pages. For example, you may want to explore issues of Self Control, Developing Resilience, Being Good Tempered, or even Friendliness or Compassion. There are plenty more to explore and help you to feel good about yourself.
How we feel about ourselves impacts on many aspects of our lives. By Building Confidence and Self-Esteem, we can overcome barriers and learn to accept our own strengths and weaknesses. Further your understanding of self-esteem and confidence by reading our pages on Personal Presentation, how we present or market ourselves to others, and Personal Appearance, how we dress and look after our physical appearances.
Developing assertiveness skills is important for self-development. Assertiveness is not about being aggressive or passive but a tool we use to develop an understanding of ourselves and communicate our beliefs, values and opinions to others.
The way that we manage our time has a direct effect on how we feel.
Our Introduction to Time Management page outlines some of the ways you can improve your effectiveness at getting things done, so that you achieve more and feel more motivated and self-confident. Prioritise, categorise and organise your time to maximum benefit.
Our lives are often full of things that waste time or distract us from doing what’s important. Follow our simple tips to avoid wasting time, and reduce these distractions, leaving more time to achieve your goals.
Stress and Stress Management
Stress is common in modern life. Many of us have demands that we feel we constantly need to balance–work, family, money, health and so on.
Stress can make you seriously ill, so we hope that you will find our stress pages useful in helping you reduce, manage and avoid stress in your life.
- What is Stress? – This page is an introduction to stress, and will help you to learn more about what causes stress and how stress may manifest itself in behaviour.
- Avoiding Stress – By understanding why we get stressed and the triggers for stress, we can potentially avoid or minimise stressful situations. Discover some ways in which stress can be avoided and some tips on relaxation.
- Stress, Nutrition and Diet – Learn about the relationship between what we eat and how stressed we feel. Improve your diet, feel better about yourself, enjoy life, gain confidence and reduce stress.
- Stress in the Workplace – Workplace stress is common and responsible for many lost work days. Why do people get stressed at work, what can be done to alleviate the problem and does your employer have a duty to minimise workplace stress?
- Tips for Dealing with Stress – Practical and simple ways that you can deal with and help combat stress in your life.
- Relaxation Techniques - Learn some simple and effective ways to relax.
Anger, Anger Management and Aggression
We all get angry from time to time. Anger is a natural emotion that can be triggered by stress, frustration, feelings of wrong-doing and many other factors.
Anger should not be thought of as a negative emotion but rather a natural release - we all handle and manage anger in different ways.
Aggressive behaviour towards others is unacceptable and a criminal offence in many countries. As we are all aware, aggression can be very damaging both psychologically and physically for all involved. See our pages on Dealing with Aggression and Recognising Aggression in Others.